Praise You

It was the year we wrote the musical Kids Under Construction. We decided to travel to Puerto Rico to combine a vacation with some work time with Ron Huff: conceive the musical, create the staging, and lay out the plot. Ron and Donna, our whole family, and my mother spent a week on a lovely beach lined by palm trees and tropical flowers.

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Our eight-year-old, Amy, thought Donna Huff was the most beautiful woman she’d ever seen. To imitate her, Amy picked fresh hibiscus blossoms to pin in her hair each evening. Benjy, a year younger, caught lizards by the tail and collected sand crabs in his plastic pail. Suzanne, at twelve, teetered between childhood and womanhood. One minute she was chasing lizards or building sand castles with Benjy; the next she was writing postcards to a boy back home.

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We all knew how priceless these moments were. We memorized the sunsets, absorbed the music of the birds, and pressed exotic flowers between the pages of the books we’d brought to read.  As for our work, we all wrote and talked about ideas, great and small, and used the welcome break to refresh our spirits.

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One day while the children played at the water’s edge with my mother (who was always the biggest kid of all), Bill and I took a walk down the beach. It was easy to walk a long way and not think about how far you’d gone. When we realized how long we’d been away, we turned back toward the hotel. We were still quite a distance away when we saw a child running toward us, waving his arms. Soon we realized it was Benjy, urgently trying to tell us something. We ran to meet him.

“Suzanne lost her glasses in the ocean!” he yelled over the thunder of the surf. “She was picking up shells and a big wave came in and knocked off her glasses. The tide washed them out to sea!”

“How long ago?” I asked, thinking about how quickly these strong currents had been carrying things—even children—down the beach.

“About fifteen minutes ago. ­We’ve been looking for them ever since.”

My mind raced. A coral reef ran parallel to the shoreline about a hundred feet out. There were urgent warnings of an undertow—“Strong Currents.” Objects like sand toys or rafts caught by a wave had been carried down the beach as fast as the children could run to catch them.

By now we were shouting back and forth to Suzanne. “Where did you lose them?” I yelled.

“Right here. I was standing right here!”

She was knee-deep in water as the tide was coming in. “I ­can’t see a thing, Mother! What are we going to do?”

“Let’s pray,” I said and I took her two hands in mine.

Then I thought to myself, What are you doing? You’re going to ruin this kid’s faith. Those glasses have long since been pulled out to sea by the undertow, most likely smashed to bits against the coral reef. If we even find any pieces, they will have washed ashore far down the beach!

But I was too far into this to turn back. Holding Suzanne’s hands and standing knee-deep in water, I prayed: “Jesus, You know how much Suzanne needs her glasses, and that we are far from home and know no doctors here to have them replaced. We are Your children and this is Your ocean. You know where the glasses are, so we’re asking You to send them back.”

Just then Suzanne squeezed my hand and interrupted my prayer. “Mother! Something just hit my leg!” She let go of my hand, reached down into the water, and pulled out her glasses. They were in one piece and not even scratched!

We danced a jig of praise and she ran off to tell the others who were searching farther down the beach.

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Much later that evening, after we’d had our dinner and the kids were ready for bed, I took out the Bible and opened it to Psalms to read something that might fit the sounds of the surf pounding the shore outside our room’s open patio doors. I chose a psalm we’d read many times, but never had we heard it as we did that night.

O Lord, you have examined my heart and know everything about me. You know when I sit or stand. When far away you know my every thought. You chart the path ahead of me, and tell me where to stop and rest. Every moment, you know where I am. You know what I am going to say before I even say it. You both precede and follow me, and place your hand of blessing on my head. This is too glorious, too wonderful to believe! I can never be lost to your Spirit! I can never get away from my God! If I go up to heaven, you are there; if I go down to the place of the dead, you are there. If I ride the morning winds to the farthest oceans, even there your hand will guide me, your strength will support me. (Psalm 139:1–10 tlb)

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When we had finished all of Psalm 139, we could hardly believe that God’s Word had been so specific for us… so familiar yet as new and fresh as this day’s miracle. Together we thanked God that He is a God who chose to be involved in our lives, that truly He had scheduled our days; we marveled at the truth that we ­couldn’t even “count how many times a day [His] thoughts turn toward [us]” (Ps. 139:18 tlb).

Psalm 139 has returned many times to visit our family. Over the years our children read it to their children. Soon after that trip Bill and I wrote the psalm into a song we called “Praise You.” It has been arranged for choirs and recorded by various artists. But it will always be for us a reminder of the day a little girl prayed with her mother on an island beach for a pair of glasses lost at sea.

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Home is Portable

If there’s anything I’ve learned over our years of making home, it is that home is portable.  Home is anywhere our family is together.  For us “home” has been not only in our house on the hill, but in hotel rooms, on busses, in sports team arena locker rooms, auditorium dressing rooms, and sometimes in church Sunday School rooms or Pastors’ offices.  I have made “home” in cottages at lakesides, cabins in the woods, and rental condos by the ocean.

My friend Peggy Benson taught me that seasoned travelers do not “travel light” if you’re a homemaker.  When our kids were small, it was Peg who told me, “You can check two suitcases as easily as one.” Of course, that was when there were not the current limits on luggage. When our families vacationed together, I would find our kids drawn to Peggy’s room.  When I went to find out why, I would discover that Peggy had made noodle soup in her hot pot, wrapped the children in a homemade throw or quilt, and had, in general, created a comfort zone in the Benson hotel room.  Little did I know then how valuable her example would be!

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Given any space that is ours for a time, I have learned to light a travel candle, put a favorite throw over the end of the bed (cashmere throws from Williams Sonoma take almost no room to pack yet are super soft and warm), add some flowers (roadside thistles and Queen Anne’s Lace will do) and make a hot cup of Earl Grey tea (my favorite teas are from Tea Forté). 

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One of my favorite travel tuck-a-ways are clear-vinyl vases (Wonder Vase), that store flat and fold out to hold a bouquet of prairie grasses or blue roadside chicory, wild daisies or orange daylilies.

Small embroidered linen guest towels spread over a hotel table give a simple but lovely setting for a couple of small antique books of English poetry and a picture of important loved ones framed in silk travel-frames.

I try to tuck in a game or two as a motivation for conversation.  Travel Scrabble and Backgammon make a great alternative to T.V. after a day on the road…or on the beach.

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I am usually responsible for decorating our home-away-from-home--our tour bus.  I choose a pallet that is both light (to give the illusion of more space) and warm.  Our present bus takes its color cues from nature: warm browns, russet, and creams with accents of robin’s egg blue.  Pillows, soft throws, and subtle lighting seem to invite those who travel to put up their feet, lie back and enjoy a good cup of coffee.  A coffee pot, a refrigerator stocked with good-for-you snacks, a cupboard full of organic cereals, and a bowl of fresh fruit on the table make this as near to home as it gets on the road.

If I have my way, there are always plenty of great books to read and a good collection of classical and other instrumental music to comb the tangles from our stressed-out psyches and provide food for the soul.

We have also taken our grandkids on bus week-ends, and what a time we had!  We played games, made art projects, ate snacks and did homework.  We had long conversations about everything from girlfriends and playground competitions to aspirations for the future.  In short, we spent the week-end at home

We have learned that home is wherever we can be together. Home is “building a nest” where we happen to be, in a hotel, on the bus, in a rented vacation space, or in a tent in the woods.  Home is making memories together—on purpose.  Home is as portable, well, as love.

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Bless This Child

My mother always said that we human beings get real about life at two times:  when somebody we love dies, and when a baby is born.  I’ve lived long enough now to learn that she was right.  I have handed off the hand of those I love into the hand of their Maker, and I’ve sat by our two daughters and our son’s sweet wife when they were giving birth to our seven grandchildren.

I think of those plastic pet doors people put over openings to their garages so that puppies can go in and out in the winter.  It seems that in watching someone I love pass into eternity or a new baby entering this world from eternity, there is a moment when the flap of eternity opens, and the sparkling dust and the warmth of somewhere-else gets on me just enough to change my perspective for the rest of my life.

This glimpse of forever must be celebrated, for we who stand and watch can never be the same; we have stood on holy ground.   The birth our babies with eternal souls is call for the community that will surround these children to commit to be there, not just when the children are little and cute, but also when they go through the difficult or awkward passages of life—to love, to encourage, to support, and to patiently nurture them to wholeness.  Together, let’s bless this child.

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Touch Christmas

What a wild circus of textures Christmas is!  Come, let’s “feel our way” around the glories of this tactile celebration!

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First feel the soft skin of a baby, who is God-made-most-touchable, most-vulnerable for us who “were afar off.”

Touch a baby; tenderly embrace a child to honor Him who was Love in a baby blanket…. in our arms.

Touch the rough texture of a well-worn wooden manger and the prickly straw that fills it.

Touch the moist noses of the cows and horses that stand, curious, around.  Feel the night air.

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Then touch the celebration that has gradually come to surround this “most touchable” happening.  Feel the needles of the evergreen tree and boughs that announce that because of Jesus we shall always live!

Touch the snow that covers the ground and remember the “covering” – the atonement – that makes us “whiter than snow” in the eyes of God.

Touch the red berries on the branches we gather and put in all sorts of containers, remembering that this child would one day shed his blood that its life-giving qualities could fill us all no matter the shape, size, or condition of our containers.

Touch the lights as they burn warm, string them everywhere.  Light the streets and the houses, the cathedrals and the back streets with them, for the chill of death has been replaced by warmth and light.

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Touch your children, your neighbors; the community with reconciliation.  Take someone a warm cake; extend a warm handshake; offer the thawing warmth of forgiveness.

Hold and ring the gold and silver bells.  Ring out the news that the Creator of the galaxies has touched us.  Yes, ring the bells and pass them on!  Touch someone else.  We are not alone!

 

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