Don't you have to just love that? Well, I loved it, too! So when we were in Carmel, California, on vacation, I discovered in a lovely French country shop a dainty bracelet made of thin gold and silver faces of antique watches. I just couldn't resist it. It had Amy's name all over it! We gave it to her for her birthday. None of the hands move on those tiny watch faces--Amy's kind of timepiece.
When Benjy was a teen-ager, he asked me to listen to part of an album by the Canadian rock group Triumph. On it was a brilliant musical study called "Time Canon," a trilogy of songs about time. The first was a cut called "Time Goes By". There was a cut called "Killing Time", which, if I recall, was a song about the young who think they have all the time in the world to kill. But gradually, there is a turn in the trilogy and the meaning of "killing" turns from a lighthearted comment about killing time into an adjective meaning time that kills! Loneliness and too much time become lethal, killing the soul. Unforgettable.
I thought of that trilogy of songs when the COVID-19 epidemic forced social distancing, too much time alone, and isolation from the happy interaction of family gatherings became a strange new norm. People were not meant to be alone. Children need children, squealing down the hillside. Families need to be crammed around tables, sharing turkey and pumpkin pie, telling the hilarious stories to the new generation, laughing their heads off together. We really do need each other!
It is important to be aware that there are two kinds of time: Chronos and Kairos. The first is earth time, the kind of time that schedules are built on--the kind of time that runs our lives, and keeps up the pressure, and causes the wheels of commerce to turn with relentless urgency. Any chronological timekeeping is the product of this earth and its value system. Chronos gets us to work and to school and to church and sets the framework of our days.
Then there is God's time. Amazing how something like a worldwide pandemic could stop down what we all thought was totally essential, and make us reconsider what is vitally important after all. God's time, Kairos, is eternal and not the victim of earth's systems, values, or pressures. I am coming to believe that it may be our mission on this earth to turn what Chronos time we have here in this life into something eternal--to make Kairos out of the hours of Chronos time we are given on this earth, something that will transcend time and space and go on after time and space shall end.
Today I visit the clocks of my life again. It is more than their ability to tell me what time it is; it is to remind me the value of the moments we have. It is Liam winding my parents’ grandfather clock on Sunday, because it matters. It is making conscious note that each day isn't just another day to be driven by our cell phones. It is a day to make something of the time, put some eternity in it, by the way we dish up the pot roast after worship and have that lingering conversation with the teen-agers and the little ones, and the old ones, and the usually-too-busy-ones and the college students (who know more right now than they will ever know again in their lives). It is really listening--and seeing in everyone's insight a kernel of truth--a treasure we may not have recognized before. And it is that something more, that Kairos sitting right here in the middle of our Chronos--right here in this moment on this planet at this time with these people we love, barely aware that the clock is chiming away marking something, well, timeless!